Have you ever been afraid? Thought your life is ruined by one problem? Like when you are heartbroken, or when you failed the exam, or when you lose your money?
Or maybe, those things haven't happened yet, but you are scared to death that those things will eventually happen? Like when you didn't do well in the exam, then you're totally scared that you will fail.
What did you do next? How did you cope up with your fear?
Are you gonna be frustrated? Or you pretend to be calm? Or you are REALLY calm?
I am such a paranoid at some states. I could be worry so much if some things didn't happen well in my life. Or I could be worry that my expectations in life might not happen.
Sometimes my fear turned into reality, sometimes not.
And I know the solution. Keep calm, turn off your emotion, do a night prayer, sleep well, and tomorrow will be a brighter day.
Easy to say, lazy to be done. Or we just like to live along with our fear. We just get used to live with fear; we're afraid if we lose our job, we can't earn our living; we're afraid if we let go someone, he/she will forget us forever; we're afraid if we didn't please our friend, we'll stay alone in this world.
We're afraid to many things and we often forget that we shouldn't be so.